
About Your Relationship Profile
This report analyzes the personalities of both individuals to assess their compatibility. It also offers suggestions for ways to mitigate the stress or damage that can come from differing personalities and perspectives.
When you are in a relationship, you come to know each other more deeply over time. At first friction is rare. As time goes by and you discover additional sides to your partner, you become aware of personality traits you appreciate as well as some that rub you the wrong way. Even if you consider your relationship nearly perfect, you will experience occasional bouts of conflict.
Negative traits are almost always a cause of friction, but it is interesting to note that some qualities that are considered positive can also be incompatible. You may find this report is more critical or even harsh compared to other readings of this type. My approach is designed to throw light on differences in your chart that might benefit from a frank, unbiased examination. Ignoring potential issues can cause more damage overall than a few honest remarks in a reading.
You will probably encounter some texts that state: "The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report." Those texts are not repeated here because they are either redundant or offset by other conditions. This is done to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible; repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.
Jessica and Mary, I hope you will appreciate the perspective of your Compatibility Report and will find it beneficial to your relationship.
Please note we use gender-neutral language when addressing individuals in our relationship readings. To some, using the singular "they," "them," and "their" may sound awkward, but we believe words matter. We aspire to include everyone.
Please verify that the name and date of birth showing below are accurate.
Your Life Path number is considered the single most significant information available in your Personality Chart. It is derived from the total of all numbers found in your date of birth. However, it is important to keep in mind that the aspects described in the next few chapters will either complement, supplement, or sometimes weaken the attributes revealed in numbers derived from your name.
Jessica, your Life Path number is 9

You are the philanthropist, humanitarian, socially conscious, and are deeply concerned about the state of the world. You have great compassion and idealism. You are a utopian and will spend your life trying to realize some aspect of your utopian dream, sacrificing money, time, and energy for a better world. It is in giving that you will find much satisfaction.
You have a broad outlook on life. You tend to see the big picture, rather than the minute details. You naturally attract people from all walks of life who can fit into your larger plans and take over the areas you find uninteresting. The person with a 9 Life Path is rarely prejudiced or accepts social biases of people. Instead, they evaluate people on the basis of what they can do for the larger cause. They are the true egalitarian.
You are imaginative and creative, especially at harmoniously arranging the beauty already potential in the environment. These abilities can lead you into such fields as interior decorating, landscape art, and photography. But because of your strong social consciousness, you can be an effective politician, lawyer, judge, minister, teacher, healer, and environmentalist. Vocations that require self- sacrifice and have a clear social impact are common among 9s.
You are often disappointed by the realities of life: the shortcomings of others, or of yourself. Somehow, you don't want to accept the imperfections of the world, a feeling that drives you constantly to try to improve upon it. But rather than be satisfied with your efforts, and those of others, you relentlessly push on, striving for greater accomplishments. You are often unsatisfied with the results. In short, you lack the perspective that would otherwise make it possible for you to enjoy life more fully and accept its natural limitations. You have a controlled enthusiasm and the ability to finish what you start.
A key to your personality is the necessity of sacrifice. You have to learn to let go of material possessions and relationships, the inherent lesson being that holding on too tightly to anything causes pain. Money comes to you through mysterious or unexpected ways: inheritance; the benevolence of someone who was inspired by your work; or a lucky investment. Conversely, if you pursue money for its own sake, after giving up on your larger dreams, you're likely to find yourself empty handed.
The most successful and satisfying road for a nine is giving; sharing and sacrificing for a larger goal, without expecting anything in return. Your greatest chance at success is to tie your personal fortunes to an endeavor that makes the world a better place for others. Very often, this turns into a highly successful and lucrative enterprise, providing amply for you and your family. Your life rests on the axiom that the more you give, the bigger your reward.
You are romantic, but your love is more impersonal. You tend to be focused on your dreams.
When you are not in harmony with your true nature, you can fall to moodiness, or become aloof, and withdrawn. You can become timid, uncertain, and ungrateful, putting the blame for your troubles on others or the world. You have a gift for examining your life objectively, and at some distance. Be honest with yourself. By openly facing your shortcomings, as well as your strengths, you develop equilibrium. You are thus able to love and better understand yourself and all of life.
Mary, your Life Path number is 3

You possess a great talent for creativity and self-expression. Many writers, poets, actors and musicians are born under the 3 Life Path. You are witty, possess a gift for gab, and savor the limelight. Your talent for the expressive arts is so abundant that you may well have felt drawn to becoming an artist while still very young. Your artistic abilities can only be developed, however, through discipline and commitment to the true development of your talent. Commitment, concentration and hard work are the only means of bringing forth your talent.
Thanks to your gift for self-expression, you can be the life of the party, and the center of attention. However, you could easily squander your talent by becoming a social butterfly. Your creativity is the gift that can give you the comfort and luxury you desire, but not without continual focus and discipline. You are optimistic and possess the resilience to overcome many setbacks.
You are socially active, popular, and inspire people with your sunny "happy go lucky" attitude. You can be generous to a fault. Many people born under the 3 Life Path have difficulty handling money because they can be disorganized and not particularly serious about their responsibilities. You are emotional and vulnerable. When hurt, you withdraw into a cloud of silence, eventually emerging from your reticence with jokes and laughter that cover up your true feelings. You can become moody and cynical when depressed. You can succumb to sarcastic remarks, which can be painful to those around you.
When used positively, your talent for self-expression can be a great inspiration force in the world, uplifting others, and bringing much success and happiness to you.
Your Life Path number is the most important influence in your chart. As such, their compatibility is very important to the well being of your relationship.
Jessica and Mary, your Life Path Compatibility is 9 and 3
Jessica and Mary, this aspect of the chart reflects excellent compatibility. The 3 and the 9 have the potential to form a strong bond, one that lasts for an exceptionally long time - if not forever. They represent archetypes that are almost mythical in their romantic alliance. Many stories of patience and self-sacrifice could be told about this union. What makes this so surprising is the fact that your compatibility is possible even though both numbers are considered self-centered, even egocentric at times.
Your numbers indicate you both have powerful imaginations and intense inner lives. This makes you highly creative, albeit in vastly different ways. Mary (the 3) has a unique, somewhat offbeat originality, and is comfortable with life's unexpected turns and events. Jessica likes to manipulate the environment until everything is harmonious; they have the talent to combine colors and materials to create beauty in a disciplined manner. Mary appreciates the way Jessica seems to control events and surroundings and Jessica envies the easy manner that Mary accepts and takes advantage of whatever life serves up. This brings balance to your relationship.
Mary, your 3 in this part of the chart is often compared to the sun: you are warm, inspiring, and uplifting to all. Jessica, your number 9 is the most idealistic and self-sacrificing number. Like the 3, it offers love freely and generously - although the 9 tends to focus on humanitarian concerns. Both are loving, giving, and worldly numbers (who never forget they are at the center of whatever they offer).
Vying for the same limelight could create conflict - a little like politicians in an election run-off. Even if, privately, they respect and like one another, they compete for attention (even slinging mud if they feel it is justified). Fortunately, this is pretty much the only area where the 3 and 9 combination might encounter problems. Avoid competition and invest in the caring, romantic, life-long unity that (otherwise) comes naturally to both of you.
Your Expression number, calculated from your full name at birth, reveals the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this as your Destiny number because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. Thus, the Expression number, to some extent, reveals the person you aim to be.
Your Expression is the most influential of the three characteristics that make up who you are. It is also the number with the most influence on your choice of career, although other aspects are important as well.
Jessica, your Expression is 6

You are a loving and caring individual with a tendency to put the needs of others before those of yourself. You are responsible and trustworthy with a high regard for justice and honesty. Duty will follow you all your life and sometimes feel a little too much of a burden.
You are artistic. Harmony and beauty are high on your list of priorities. You have musical talent but the creative talents of a 6 are sometimes left undeveloped or suppressed as a result of your tendency to sacrifice your time and pleasure to the service of others. You are highly creative in all areas of life, particularly the visual. You are also a talented business person and can work methodically toward the realization of your goals.
You have a natural gift with flowers, gardens, and animals. Your love of children has caused numerologists to dub you the "Cosmic Mother" or "Cosmic Father". The very shape of the 6 resembles and symbolizes "Pregnant with Love". You are a natural counselor and healer. But you must be careful not to interfere with the freedom of others. You are recognized as an idealist, mainly regarding marriage, friendships and humanity.
The 6 is the most harmonious of all numbers, but also contains within itself the greatest paradoxes. It is as if opposite tendencies were tenuously poised. Because of its gift for harmonizing these opposites, you are uniquely qualified to handle and integrate contradictions within yourself. It is for this reason that 6s so frequently find themselves in the role of healers or counselors, creating a peace between opposing points of view, or internal conflicts within the self.
While you can be very idealistic, there may also be a temptation to acquire beautiful objects by improper means. You must also guard against other meddlesome behavior and domestic tyranny, or always having to have your own way in a family dispute. Conversely, you have it within yourself to understand another person's dilemma and come up with a creative solution. Your natural ability to give comfort and warmth can smooth over hurt feelings like a healing balm. You attract love and appreciation. And rightly so, because you give the same in return.
You make an outstanding teacher (especially young children or special education), healer, counselor social worker, psychologist, artist, designer, gardener, florist, and farmer. You can be successful in business, especially those that involve dealing with people.
Mary, your Expression is 4

You are the bedrock of society, the foundation of any enterprise. You are an organizer and manager. Your approach to life and to problems is methodical and systematic. You are a builder and a doer. You turn dreams into reality. You possess a highly developed sense of structure. You enjoy management systems and can carry out your well laid plans. You are not the type to embark on any trip without a map.
You take your obligations and those of your family quite seriously. As a result, you are reliable and responsible. You enjoy seeing a project through from start to finish but can become too narrowly focused. You put your nose to the grindstone and tend to become a workaholic.
You are driven by contempt for all that is unstable, insecure, and unpredictable. You distrust the unconventional, preferring instead the tried-and-the-true. But this can make your endeavors move slowly and cause you much frustration, especially with the apparent limitations of your resources.
At the same time, concern for the limitations of your resources causes you to be careful and cautious, shutting you out from possible shortcuts and creative solutions provided by more daring people around you. It is important that you recognize restrictions for what they are: guiding forces that are testing and directing you toward your goals. Your challenge is to be more imaginative and to attract more creative people into your life who can advise and inspire you.
In relationships, you tend to be somewhat moralistic. You are extremely honest and sincere. You have integrity and are trustworthy but can also be rigid and stubborn. Don't let your strong likes and dislikes overrule your common sense and compassion. Be more understanding of others' shortcomings.
Because you tend to focus on details, you can fall into a rut and become a little dull and overly serious. Often, people born with the 4 Expression need to lighten up and have more fun. You have a keen eye for detail. You have great stamina and can work conscientiously and persistently toward your goals. This eventually brings you success and standing in your community.
In your conservative and careful way, you are good with money. You are very conscious of the balance between income and expenditures. You can limit your expenditures; saving money is important to you.
You are a surprisingly good parent, and love to be involved with children. Somehow, you relate a little more than others to the innocence of children, perhaps seeing a good deal of yourself in them. You, too, are idealistic and respect the simplicity of children.
Many accountants, bookkeepers, government officials, managers, and lawyers are born under the 4 Expression. You can be attracted to the arts and music but will likely bring your love of structure and order to any artistic field. Classical music and opera are particularly appealing and inspiring for you.
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a whole person on a deep level (rather than the "face" you show to the world, described by your Personality number).
It cannot be over-emphasized how important it is to recognize that the same number in a different area of your chart will affect you differently. There may be times you read something that seems to directly contradict an earlier statement. Yet, if you take time to carefully think about the opposing information you might recognize that, being the complex individual you are, you carry the same contradictions. This is natural and true for all of us. You may excel at organization in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, but direct and confrontational in another.
Be aware that it is more difficult to overcome negative traits you recognize in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.
Jessica and Mary, your Expression Compatibility is 6 and 4
Jessica and Mary, it is uncommon for these two numbers to "fall in love." Although they carry common traits (they are both practical and highly responsible) they are rarely interested in one another. The 4 and the 6 are both family-oriented numbers, with a keen sense of community and loyalty, but they tend to compete where you might expect them to be supportive. This is only one area of your chart, so there are other influences to consider that could mitigate this competitive aspect, but it will quite possibly be the hardest to overcome at the onset of your relationship.
However, if support prevails over competition and you do become involved in a romantic relationship, it will usually be a strong, comfortable alliance - the kind of relationship others view as indestructible. If you can accept your differences, you have the potential to be the "perfect couple".
You share important priorities: your home, children, friends, stability, and security. You are both loyal and protective of each other and those you care about. It is in your approach to life and the way you express yourselves that you are quite different. While Mary (the 4) relies on structure, discipline, and control to protect and care for others, Jessica relies on warmth, sacrifice, and forgiveness. Mary is much less flexible and may, at times, feel that Jessica is too soft and lenient. Yours is an example of a relationship typically characterized by the disciplinary father and the soft mother, or vice versa.
People around you may have the impression that Mary is rigid and less loving, while Jessica is pure love and gentleness, however this is not an accurate perception. Mary's love is no less powerful than Jessica's - it is just less openly expressed. Mary will fight for and sacrifice just about anything to protect Jessica, the children, and anyone else who is part of their life.
Some danger exists if your differing attributes become too magnified. Mary's need for discipline and structure could become too much for Jessica, suffocating and limiting their ability to express love naturally and without anxiety. Jessica's willingness to be generous to a fault (and possibly be taken advantage of as a result) might lead Mary to lose respect for them.
Your loving natures can help you weather such conflicts and differences. Stay focused on your love, commitment, and shared values. If you can talk openly about your concerns, and respect each other's individuality, you have the potential to maintain a strong lifelong relationship.
The Expression number described above points to a more productive side of your life. Your Heart's Desire reflects a deeper, inner you; it suggests an underlying urge, your true motivation, and the general intention behind many of your actions. It reveals the environment and lifestyle you prefer, as well as your likes, dislikes, and the type of people you are drawn to. Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life.
It makes sense that the vowels of your name are the foundation for your Heart's Desire. Vowels are the peaks and valleys of a language. Notice how vowels leave your mouth in a free-flowing breath. Try it: Aaaa.... Eeee.... Oooo.. Consonants though, are cut off either at the beginning or in the end.
You might say that it is in the flow of your breath that you express your deeper self.
Jessica, your Heart's Desire number is 9

You want to be of service to the world. Your deepest satisfaction comes from knowing that you have advanced the cause of humanity. Your ideals are of the highest order. You are a perfectionist. You strive to make the world a utopia; to make each person's lot in life better; to become perfect yourself. One of your challenges in life is to strive toward your lofty goals and at the same time recognize the good you are doing.
You like and are fascinated by people from all walks of life. Human nature is a lifelong study for you. You are highly intuitive, but not an especially good judge of character. You are a bit naive, as well, thinking perhaps that all people have the same values as you. You dream of having the resources to immediately relieve the suffering of others, whether it is economic, physical, or psychological. You are gifted with a good mind and a great deal of wisdom, which makes you a natural teacher, counselor, or healer.
As much as you desire to be of service to others, you also crave fame and the approval of the masses. Much of the energy you expend in life is directed toward putting yourself before an audience, most often as a salesperson whose product provides some social good; as a philanthropist; or an artist. You are attracted to the arts as a vocation, especially as an actor, photographer, or writer. But whatever your profession, any involvement in the arts, even as a hobby, will provide you with a deep and lasting satisfaction.
Secretly, you dream of having a big impact on the world. Others may see this as egotism, especially when you are still young. But your concern for others is genuine. You must apply yourself in this direction to become psychologically whole and personally satisfied.
Your vision is on the crowds of people, which can cause you to overlook the needs of those closest to you. You need personal love as well but tend to put your needs in the background. Still, you are a loving person, and only need to be reminded to direct and demonstrate that love to those nearby. If, however, you are focused exclusively on the masses, people will perceive you as distant and a bit aloof.
You are emotional, and sensitive. You can also be moody and critical. You have high expectations for yourself and others. This can cause you much anger when your expectations are unfulfilled. One of your most important life lessons is to forgive.
Because you are striving hard to attain high ideals, you may think of yourself as superior to others. Arrogance is a trap many 9s fall into. The danger is that arrogance cuts you off from the thing you love the most: people. Your happiness and contentment are therefore highly dependent on the ease with which you can serve and influence mankind.
It is the paradox of your Heart's Desire that you receive by giving. Both your material success and spiritual satisfaction are made possible through service and sacrifice to others.
Mary, your Heart's Desire number is 6

Your attention is directed to helping and caring for those you love. You are exceedingly domestic. You love your home and family and work hard to make both comfortable and secure. Your love for family and friends is a major source of your happiness and sometimes unhappiness. Your desire to help others is so strong that you often find yourself sacrificing your own personal needs for someone else's. You can overdo it, becoming too deeply involved in other people's lives. You risk interfering in personal matters and or smothering those you love in too much affection. This can be especially weakening to children, who never experience their own personal strength if an adult is too protective.
You are extremely loyal and rarely let anyone down. You need to feel appreciation for your giving and caring. You want to know that you are needed. You are generous and very forgiving. You are somehow able to overlook the worst mistakes in another and find enough good in that person to continue the relationship. You are patient, warm, and sympathetic, sometimes to the point of sentimentality.
You have a natural ability as a counselor and healer. You are an excellent listener, compassionate and understanding. You can both sympathize and empathize with a person's dilemma. Your challenge as a counselor is to be adequately educated so that you can do more than provide a sympathetic ear or shoulder.
You possess a great deal of artistic talent, though you may not have a lot of confidence in your ability. Art gives you a great deal of pleasure and satisfaction. You are especially sensitive to your environment and have a knack for creating an artistic, healing, and harmonious atmosphere in your home or work space.
Your deepest intention is to love those around you and be loved in return. Six is the most loving of all numbers, especially in one-to-one relationships. Your instincts are toward your family and friends. You envision a beautiful and harmonious life with love as the basis for all social interaction. Your love is returned manifold; people appreciate you and the love you give and are willing to go to great lengths to keep you close at hand.
Compatibility of the Heart's Desire number is very important in a relationship. Few relationships last beyond the initial stage if these numbers are not harmonious.
Jessica and Mary, your Heart's Desire Compatibility is 9 and 6
Jessica and Mary, all numbers divisible by 3 have several things in common. Primarily, they respond to the physical, emotional, and spiritual needs of others. The 6 (Mary) expresses this in the love and care shown to family and friends. The 9 (Jessica) directs its attention to the greater good - to humanity at large.
When the 6 and 9 are found between romantic partners in this part of the chart, compatibility is automatic. Both of you are self-sacrificing, giving, and caring people. Mary is more practical, Jessica more idealistic, but your motivations are similar.
One attribute you share is your sense of justice; both the 6 and the 9 have a strong awareness of right and wrong, this could lead to one or both of you getting involved in politics or becoming activists or advocates for a cause. Unless you happen to be on opposing ends politically, this trait could further strengthen your bond.
Creativity and an eye for beauty are other aspects you have in common. Oddly, this is often a source of trouble for this combination. There will be times you have similar views when it comes to decorating, for example, but you will also often differ. When it comes to creative matters you will both have strong opinions. In the event of a disagreement, you will need to compromise (something you are both quite capable of doing).
Although you are generally highly compatible, there are areas where you are likely to clash if certain negative traits are not acknowledged and kept under control. Although this is not common in your combination, it is something to be aware of. Jessica, although idealistic and self-sacrificing, the 9 has the potential to become arrogant and self-righteous at times. Recognizing the relative value of your concepts and ideas may not be your strong suit, which could lead to putting others down if they do not share your (elevated) viewpoint. If this tendency is combined with extreme religious belief the 9 can become a negative influence on others, even destroying a relationship with the most devoted partner. Accepting that the 'truth' as we understand it is still limited allows us to have compassion and tolerance for others. The 9 is the least prejudiced of all numbers, so the likelihood of this being an issue is not high. But, as with all human traits, its dark side tends to be the direct opposite of its light side.
Mary, although your 6 is considered the most loving of all numbers, it has a dark side as well. The 6 can become intolerant and angry, often without a clear cause. Irritation and anger can fester, just waiting for the right opportunity to appear. The 6, although sincere, can also be intrusive and meddlesome to an uncomfortable degree.
Jessica and Mary, the negative side of the 6 and the 9 are rarely displayed, but you will need to be mindful to prevent them from spoiling what is most certainly one of the best relationship combinations around.
The consonants of your full name at birth are the foundation of your Personality number, which is a little like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It's the outer layer of your personality, the part you feel comfortable sharing. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature.
Your Personality number serves as a censoring device in terms of what you send out, as well as whom and what you allow to approach. For this reason, your Personality is usually narrower and more protective in its definition than the real you. It also gives an indication of how others perceive you.
Jessica, your Personality number is 6

You radiate understanding and compassion. People sense your warmth and fairness. For this reason, you attract many people who need comfort, including the disadvantaged. People tend to come to you to unload their burdens. You inspire confidence. You have a fine sense of justice. You do everything in your power to keep the harmony and are even willing to sacrifice your personal desires for the good of others.
You can take this too far, however, sometimes playing the role of the martyr. You have to guard against being taken advantage of. You are not always a very good judge of character. You tend to see the best in others.
You can also become too involved in the lives of others, to your own detriment. (This aspect can be balanced by other numbers in your chart.) You are hospitable and domestic. You love children and are a good parent. You are romantic, faithful and very protective.
You are artistic. You love music, flowers and gardening. You are a natural interior designer. You have an excellent sense of color and taste. You are more concerned with the content of your personality than your appearance, which causes you to be less conscious of the style of your clothes. You are more interested in comfort and the utility of clothing than the statement it makes.
Six Personality Numbers are exceedingly generous. You are not particularly logical when it comes to finances.
You are very vulnerable to praise and criticism. You tend to worry a lot, causing stomach problems.
People see you as a maternal or paternal figure. They want to relax in your presence and unburden themselves. You are the safe port in the crowd.
Mary, your Personality number is 7

You seem mysterious and different. People see you as serious and studious. You are highly independent and self- sufficient. Your exceptional intelligence and wisdom are quickly noticed, people respect you. You are not one to attract people on the basis of your warmth or compassion -- though you may be loaded with both -- but because of your obvious insight into life's mysteries. You are hard to get to know. You are often withdrawn.
It is common for people to see your focus turn inside of yourself in the middle of a conversation. You have the makings of an intellectual and an aristocrat, but you have to guard against arrogance and an attitude of, "I've got it all figured out".
There have been periods in your life when you had little concern for your clothing or fashion, while at other times you are very aware of your clothing and use it to make a specific impression. You appear dignified no matter how you dress., but a well-groomed seven with a touch of dash definitely has an advantage. Your confidence increases when you know you are well dressed.
Your love of knowledge and wisdom shows. You are recognized as spiritual and religious, with your very own ideas regarding the purpose of life and the Creator. You are an inspired speaker, but only when discussing subjects that really interest you. Otherwise, you are not one for chatter.
Your Personality is the first aspect people notice when you first meet. Very few relationships have a chance to progress if their Personality numbers are not compatible.
Jessica and Mary, your Personality Compatibility is 6 and 7
The 6 and 7 often have a love-hate relationship, so it is uncommon to find it in romantic partners. Where the 6 is strongly committed and motivated by emotions and a need for romance, the 7 is intellectual and somewhat secretive and distant. Jessica (the 6) requires a physical and emotional connection; Mary seeks an intellectual bond. This has nothing to do with the ability or desire to love, since no number is more capable of loving than any other. But challenges can arise when people have dramatically different views or strikingly different approaches to important concerns.
Every number expresses love in a unique way. Jessica's 6 in this part of the chart is mainly influenced by emotions and depends on expressions of love to feel safe and secure in a relationship. Mary's 7 is more independent, which enables them to feel comfortable in a relationship even when deep personal feelings are not shared.
Unless this fundamental difference is understood and accepted, it can become a problem in your relationship. Jessica may, at times, feel Mary is cold and aloof, and not as attentive as they would like. Mary needs a certain amount of distance, space for quiet contemplation, daydreaming, and just being alone. When they are in that state of mind, even Jessica's loving attention could feel like an annoying disruption.
When couples are unable to accept these diverging viewpoints and approaches, it can bring much unhappiness. Interestingly, despite these contrasts, the relationship often remains unbreakable. When this happens, although the differences are often obvious to others, they probably go unnoticed by the two of you. People may wonder what keeps you together when you seem so different on all fronts.
Of course, the 6 and the 7 also have the potential to create a happy, long-lasting relationship. The key is to recognize the fundamental difference in the way you express your love. Jessica must realize that even when Mary seems distant, their love is not absent in any way. And Mary may have to accept the fact that Jessica needs frequent reassurance (and will likely demand attention if you are remiss in demonstrating it).
Keep in mind that this is just one area of your chart; other numbers and influences could mitigate these differences. However, the 6 and 7 will always have their unique approaches to love (and romance).