EMILY BROWN & JESS DAVIS

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About Your Relationship Profile

This report analyzes the personalities of both individuals to assess their compatibility. It also offers suggestions for ways to mitigate the stress or damage that can come from differing personalities and perspectives.

When you are in a relationship, you come to know each other more deeply over time. At first friction is rare. As time goes by and you discover additional sides to your partner, you become aware of personality traits you appreciate as well as some that rub you the wrong way. Even if you consider your relationship nearly perfect, you will experience occasional bouts of conflict.

Negative traits are almost always a cause of friction, but it is interesting to note that some qualities that are considered positive can also be incompatible. You may find this report is more critical or even harsh compared to other readings of this type. My approach is designed to throw light on differences in your chart that might benefit from a frank, unbiased examination. Ignoring potential issues can cause more damage overall than a few honest remarks in a reading.

You will probably encounter some texts that state: "The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report." Those texts are not repeated here because they are either redundant or offset by other conditions. This is done to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible; repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.

Emily and Jess, I hope you will appreciate the perspective of your Compatibility Report and will find it beneficial to your relationship.

Please note we use gender-neutral language when addressing individuals in our relationship readings. To some, using the singular "they," "them," and "their" may sound awkward, but we believe words matter. We aspire to include everyone.

Please verify that the name and date of birth showing below are accurate.


First Person Full name at birth: Emily Rose Brown

First Person Current name: Emily Brown

First Person Birthdate: November-10-1992

Second Person Full name at birth: Jessica Lynn Davis

Second Person Current name: Jess Davis

Second Person Birthdate: September-12-1995

Report Start Date: March-05-2026




THE LIFE PATH

Your Life Path number is considered the single most significant information available in your Personality Chart. It is derived from the total of all numbers found in your date of birth. However, it is important to keep in mind that the aspects described in the next few chapters will either complement, supplement, or sometimes weaken the attributes revealed in numbers derived from your name.


Emily, your Life Path number is 6


You possess great compassion and seek to be of service to others. You have concern for the weak and the downtrodden. You are a healer and a helper to others. You are capable of giving comfort to those in need and will frequently offer a shoulder for others to cry on. Your task in life is to develop the tools necessary to be truly helpful to others, rather than to simply be a sympathetic ear.

You must find the balance between help and interference. In the same way, you must learn the delicate art of the counselor who knows when to leave the struggle to others and when to avoid taking away the necessary experiences and lessons of life. You are naturally balanced. Therefore, you are well equipped to support and ground others in times of trial.

It is in your nature to take on responsibility -- you often fill the void left by others -- and do not turn away from personal sacrifice. At times, you may feel overburdened by the travails of others. However, the love others bestow upon you is your well-deserved reward. You try to maintain harmony within the family or group, balancing and fusing divergent forces. You seek marriage and are often a wonderful parent, offering warmth, protection, and understanding to children.

You are generous, kind, and attractive. You are often admired even adored which baffles you. You are humble and yet you carry a deep pride. You move well and gracefully but will have to work to stay in shape. Seek out physical exercise and limit the sweets and dairy you crave to keep yourself from becoming plump and round.

When young, you must be careful not to choose partners for the wrong reasons. Do not let sentimentality influence your decision, especially those involving the choice of a spouse. You need to be needed but must learn to discriminate between those you can help and others who are made weaker by your care. After all, it is in your nature to be attracted to the weaker brothers and sisters among us.

The temptation, and the danger for you, is to think of yourself as the savior of the world, carrying the burdens of others on your shoulders.

You are blessed with musical talent, as well as in the visual and performing arts. However, your creativity may well be suppressed due to your willingness to sacrifice, or your inability to fully appreciate your talents.

This is not to say that you cannot excel in these areas; on the contrary, you have the talent, and with effort you can make a success in a number of artistic fields. You also have enormous talent in business. You are blessed with a great deal of charm and charisma, which you use effectively to attract the people and support you need.

Jess, your Life Path number is 9


You are the philanthropist, humanitarian, socially conscious, and are deeply concerned about the state of the world. You have great compassion and idealism. You are a utopian and will spend your life trying to realize some aspect of your utopian dream, sacrificing money, time, and energy for a better world. It is in giving that you will find much satisfaction.

You have a broad outlook on life. You tend to see the big picture, rather than the minute details. You naturally attract people from all walks of life who can fit into your larger plans and take over the areas you find uninteresting. The person with a 9 Life Path is rarely prejudiced or accepts social biases of people. Instead, they evaluate people on the basis of what they can do for the larger cause. They are the true egalitarian.

You are imaginative and creative, especially at harmoniously arranging the beauty already potential in the environment. These abilities can lead you into such fields as interior decorating, landscape art, and photography. But because of your strong social consciousness, you can be an effective politician, lawyer, judge, minister, teacher, healer, and environmentalist. Vocations that require self- sacrifice and have a clear social impact are common among 9s.

You are often disappointed by the realities of life: the shortcomings of others, or of yourself. Somehow, you don't want to accept the imperfections of the world, a feeling that drives you constantly to try to improve upon it. But rather than be satisfied with your efforts, and those of others, you relentlessly push on, striving for greater accomplishments. You are often unsatisfied with the results. In short, you lack the perspective that would otherwise make it possible for you to enjoy life more fully and accept its natural limitations. You have a controlled enthusiasm and the ability to finish what you start.

A key to your personality is the necessity of sacrifice. You have to learn to let go of material possessions and relationships, the inherent lesson being that holding on too tightly to anything causes pain. Money comes to you through mysterious or unexpected ways: inheritance; the benevolence of someone who was inspired by your work; or a lucky investment. Conversely, if you pursue money for its own sake, after giving up on your larger dreams, you're likely to find yourself empty handed.

The most successful and satisfying road for a nine is giving; sharing and sacrificing for a larger goal, without expecting anything in return. Your greatest chance at success is to tie your personal fortunes to an endeavor that makes the world a better place for others. Very often, this turns into a highly successful and lucrative enterprise, providing amply for you and your family. Your life rests on the axiom that the more you give, the bigger your reward.

You are romantic, but your love is more impersonal. You tend to be focused on your dreams.

When you are not in harmony with your true nature, you can fall to moodiness, or become aloof, and withdrawn. You can become timid, uncertain, and ungrateful, putting the blame for your troubles on others or the world. You have a gift for examining your life objectively, and at some distance. Be honest with yourself. By openly facing your shortcomings, as well as your strengths, you develop equilibrium. You are thus able to love and better understand yourself and all of life.

How Your Life Path Numbers Compare

Your Life Path number is the most important influence in your chart. As such, their compatibility is very important to the well being of your relationship.


Emily and Jess, your Life Path Compatibility is 6 and 9


Emily and Jess, all numbers divisible by 3 have several things in common. Primarily, they respond to the physical, emotional, and spiritual needs of others. The 6 (Emily) expresses this in the love and care shown to family and friends. The 9 (Jess) directs its attention to the greater good - to humanity at large.

When the 6 and 9 are found between romantic partners in this part of the chart, compatibility is automatic. Both of you are self-sacrificing, giving, and caring people. Emily is more practical, Jess more idealistic, but your motivations are similar.

One attribute you share is your sense of justice; both the 6 and the 9 have a strong awareness of right and wrong, this could lead to one or both of you getting involved in politics or becoming activists or advocates for a cause. Unless you happen to be on opposing ends politically, this trait could further strengthen your bond.

Creativity and an eye for beauty are other aspects you have in common. Oddly, this is often a source of trouble for this combination. There will be times you have similar views when it comes to decorating, for example, but you will also often differ. When it comes to creative matters you will both have strong opinions. In the event of a disagreement, you will need to compromise (something you are both quite capable of doing).

Although you are generally highly compatible, there are areas where you are likely to clash if certain negative traits are not acknowledged and kept under control. Although this is not common in your combination, it is something to be aware of. Jess, although idealistic and self-sacrificing, the 9 has the potential to become arrogant and self-righteous at times. Recognizing the relative value of your concepts and ideas may not be your strong suit, which could lead to putting others down if they do not share your (elevated) viewpoint. If this tendency is combined with extreme religious belief the 9 can become a negative influence on others, even destroying a relationship with the most devoted partner. Accepting that the 'truth' as we understand it is still limited allows us to have compassion and tolerance for others. The 9 is the least prejudiced of all numbers, so the likelihood of this being an issue is not high. But, as with all human traits, its dark side tends to be the direct opposite of its light side.

Emily, although your 6 is considered the most loving of all numbers, it has a dark side as well. The 6 can become intolerant and angry, often without a clear cause. Irritation and anger can fester, just waiting for the right opportunity to appear. The 6, although sincere, can also be intrusive and meddlesome to an uncomfortable degree.

Emily and Jess, the negative side of the 6 and the 9 are rarely displayed, but you will need to be mindful to prevent them from spoiling what is most certainly one of the best relationship combinations around.

THE EXPRESSION


Your Expression number, calculated from your full name at birth, reveals the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this as your Destiny number because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. Thus, the Expression number, to some extent, reveals the person you aim to be.

Your Expression is the most influential of the three characteristics that make up who you are. It is also the number with the most influence on your choice of career, although other aspects are important as well.


Emily, your Expression is 4


You are the bedrock of society, the foundation of any enterprise. You are an organizer and manager. Your approach to life and to problems is methodical and systematic. You are a builder and a doer. You turn dreams into reality. You possess a highly developed sense of structure. You enjoy management systems and can carry out your well laid plans. You are not the type to embark on any trip without a map.

You take your obligations and those of your family quite seriously. As a result, you are reliable and responsible. You enjoy seeing a project through from start to finish but can become too narrowly focused. You put your nose to the grindstone and tend to become a workaholic.

You are driven by contempt for all that is unstable, insecure, and unpredictable. You distrust the unconventional, preferring instead the tried-and-the-true. But this can make your endeavors move slowly and cause you much frustration, especially with the apparent limitations of your resources.

At the same time, concern for the limitations of your resources causes you to be careful and cautious, shutting you out from possible shortcuts and creative solutions provided by more daring people around you. It is important that you recognize restrictions for what they are: guiding forces that are testing and directing you toward your goals. Your challenge is to be more imaginative and to attract more creative people into your life who can advise and inspire you.

In relationships, you tend to be somewhat moralistic. You are extremely honest and sincere. You have integrity and are trustworthy but can also be rigid and stubborn. Don't let your strong likes and dislikes overrule your common sense and compassion. Be more understanding of others' shortcomings.

Because you tend to focus on details, you can fall into a rut and become a little dull and overly serious. Often, people born with the 4 Expression need to lighten up and have more fun. You have a keen eye for detail. You have great stamina and can work conscientiously and persistently toward your goals. This eventually brings you success and standing in your community.

In your conservative and careful way, you are good with money. You are very conscious of the balance between income and expenditures. You can limit your expenditures; saving money is important to you.

You are a surprisingly good parent, and love to be involved with children. Somehow, you relate a little more than others to the innocence of children, perhaps seeing a good deal of yourself in them. You, too, are idealistic and respect the simplicity of children.

Many accountants, bookkeepers, government officials, managers, and lawyers are born under the 4 Expression. You can be attracted to the arts and music but will likely bring your love of structure and order to any artistic field. Classical music and opera are particularly appealing and inspiring for you.

Jess, your Expression is 6


You are a loving and caring individual with a tendency to put the needs of others before those of yourself. You are responsible and trustworthy with a high regard for justice and honesty. Duty will follow you all your life and sometimes feel a little too much of a burden.

You are artistic. Harmony and beauty are high on your list of priorities. You have musical talent but the creative talents of a 6 are sometimes left undeveloped or suppressed as a result of your tendency to sacrifice your time and pleasure to the service of others. You are highly creative in all areas of life, particularly the visual. You are also a talented business person and can work methodically toward the realization of your goals.

You have a natural gift with flowers, gardens, and animals. Your love of children has caused numerologists to dub you the "Cosmic Mother" or "Cosmic Father". The very shape of the 6 resembles and symbolizes "Pregnant with Love". You are a natural counselor and healer. But you must be careful not to interfere with the freedom of others. You are recognized as an idealist, mainly regarding marriage, friendships and humanity.

The 6 is the most harmonious of all numbers, but also contains within itself the greatest paradoxes. It is as if opposite tendencies were tenuously poised. Because of its gift for harmonizing these opposites, you are uniquely qualified to handle and integrate contradictions within yourself. It is for this reason that 6s so frequently find themselves in the role of healers or counselors, creating a peace between opposing points of view, or internal conflicts within the self.

While you can be very idealistic, there may also be a temptation to acquire beautiful objects by improper means. You must also guard against other meddlesome behavior and domestic tyranny, or always having to have your own way in a family dispute. Conversely, you have it within yourself to understand another person's dilemma and come up with a creative solution. Your natural ability to give comfort and warmth can smooth over hurt feelings like a healing balm. You attract love and appreciation. And rightly so, because you give the same in return.

You make an outstanding teacher (especially young children or special education), healer, counselor social worker, psychologist, artist, designer, gardener, florist, and farmer. You can be successful in business, especially those that involve dealing with people.

How Your Expression Numbers Compare

More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a whole person on a deep level (rather than the "face" you show to the world, described by your Personality number).

It cannot be over-emphasized how important it is to recognize that the same number in a different area of your chart will affect you differently. There may be times you read something that seems to directly contradict an earlier statement. Yet, if you take time to carefully think about the opposing information you might recognize that, being the complex individual you are, you carry the same contradictions. This is natural and true for all of us. You may excel at organization in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, but direct and confrontational in another.

Be aware that it is more difficult to overcome negative traits you recognize in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.


Emily and Jess, your Expression Compatibility is 4 and 6


Emily and Jess, it is uncommon for these two numbers to "fall in love." Although they carry common traits (they are both practical and highly responsible) they are rarely interested in one another. The 4 and the 6 are both family-oriented numbers, with a strong sense of community and loyalty to others, but they tend to compete where you might expect them to be supportive. This is only one area of your chart, so there are other influences to consider that could mitigate this competitive aspect, but it will quite possibly be the hardest to overcome at the onset of your relationship.

However, if support prevails over competition and you do become involved in a romantic relationship, it will usually be a strong, comfortable alliance - the kind of relationship others view as indestructible. If you can accept your differences, you have the potential to be the "perfect couple".

You share important priorities: your home, children, friends, stability, and security. You are both loyal and protective of each other and those you care about. It is in your approach to life and the way you express yourselves that you are quite different. While Emily (the 4) relies on structure, discipline, and control to protect and care for others, Jess relies on warmth, sacrifice, and forgiveness. Emily is much less flexible and may, at times, feel that Jess is too soft and lenient. Yours is an example of a relationship typically characterized by the disciplinary father and the soft mother, or vice versa.

People around you may have the impression that Emily is rigid and less loving, while Jess is pure love and gentleness, however this is not an accurate perception. Emily's love is no less powerful than Jess's - it is just less openly expressed. Emily will fight for, and sacrifice, just about anything to protect Jess, the children, and anyone else who is part of their life.

Some danger exists if your differing attributes become too magnified. Emily's need for discipline and structure could become too much for Jess, suffocating and limiting their ability to express love naturally and without anxiety. Jess's willingness to be generous to a fault (and possibly be taken advantage of as a result) might lead Emily to lose respect for them.

Your loving natures can help you weather such conflicts and differences. Stay focused on your love, commitment, and shared values. If you can talk openly about your issues, and respect each other's individuality, you have the potential to maintain a strong lifelong relationship.

THE HEART'S DESIRE

The Expression number described above points to a more productive side of your life. Your Heart's Desire reflects a deeper, inner you; it suggests an underlying urge, your true motivation, and the general intention behind many of your actions. It reveals the environment and lifestyle you prefer, as well as your likes, dislikes, and the type of people you are drawn to. Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life.

It makes sense that the vowels of your name are the foundation for your Heart's Desire. Vowels are the peaks and valleys of a language. Notice how vowels leave your mouth in a free-flowing breath. Try it: Aaaa.... Eeee.... Oooo.. Consonants though, are cut off either at the beginning or in the end.

You might say that it is in the flow of your breath that you express your deeper self.


Emily, your Heart's Desire number is 2


You want peace and harmony in all aspects of your life. You want to devote your life to someone or something. You fall in love easily. You are extremely sensitive and emotional. You can be sentimental, and you cry at sad stories. You need friends and society. You appreciate the refinements of life. You desire comfort and security. You have refined taste and can be a connoisseur. You love music and possess a good deal of musical talent. Your sensitivity is a symptom of your highly developed intuition. But you must learn to trust it.

You are a gentle soul and shy away from confrontation if possible. You experience a battle within when you do not believe you can handle a situation; this may have a paralyzing effect on you. You prefer to give in when you should assert yourself. You must learn to be more decisive. Very often, you are afraid to use your own power in the face of someone else's aggressiveness. You incorrectly perceive yourself to be in a weaker position; you may ultimately give in merely to avoid a fight. Conversely, you are extremely diplomatic and tactful. You like to accomplish things through quiet persuasion. You dislike force.

You must fight uncertainty and doubt. You need to develop confidence and a willingness to stand up for what you believe to be right.

You function best in a supportive role, guiding the more public person in quiet, unobtrusive, yet essential ways.

Jess, your Heart's Desire number is 5


Freedom is essential for your happiness. You love change, new experiences, meeting new people, adventure and travel. You love the exotic, faraway places. Variety is more than mere spice of life -- you thrive on it. You are extremely flexible and adaptable. You have more curiosity than the proverbial cat. You have a sharp mind and a natural ability with words. You are a born communicator, clear, fluent, and imaginative in every area that interests you -- which are many!

Your Heart's Desire makes you very well equipped for life. Change -- the only constant in life -- doesn't threaten you, as it does other people. You are highly resourceful. Generally, you can think clearly in a crisis; you have good mental and physical reflexes. Whenever you fall, you tend to land on your feet.

You are highly enthusiastic. You get excited easily over a new idea or opportunity. Your nature is unconventional. You are a bit of a gambler, taking risks whenever you think the rewards are worth it.

You are very socially oriented and rarely, if ever, dull or boring. You are, of course, drawn to those people who, like yourself, are original thinkers and have exciting personalities.

You enjoy being involved in several projects at the same time. You need continual stimulation by the new and fascinating. You tend to discard boring pastimes quickly. Your love of freedom and change can have numerous consequences. You can be irresponsible, especially when it comes to finishing tasks. You have a hard time persevering at a given project and bringing it to completion.

You must be careful that your love of sensory pleasure doesn't lead you to excessive indulgence in alcohol, food, sex, and even drugs.

You are a bit of a hero and want to save the world. This causes you to make promises you often cannot keep. Down deep, you long to please everyone, an impossible goal. Many 5s can be emotionally superficial. They feel love passionately, but fear making deep and lasting commitments. As a result, they resist the depths of emotional attachments and remain on the surface where it is safe.

You will experience many changes and unusual events, but you learn best through experience. Therefore, your life will be full, and you will make great strides in personal growth.

How Your Heart's Desire Numbers Compare

Compatibility of the Heart's Desire number is very important in a relationship. Few relationships last beyond the initial stage if these numbers are not harmonious.


Emily and Jess, your Heart's Desire Compatibility is 2 and 5


Emily and Jess, this aspect of your chart requires special attention. When a 2 and 5 are in the same area of this chart, they have the potential to produce a short-lived relationship. The main issue stems from the difficulty you have understanding each other. In some cases, the differences are so extreme couples end up not even liking each other. But the simple fact that you are sustaining a relationship today indicates other numbers are making up for the potential discord that can occur.

It is important to emphasize that the 2 and 5 are only unharmonious when they are found in the same location of the chart; negative aspects dissipate when the 2 is in one area of the chart and the 5 in another. For example, a 2 Life Path can be quite harmonious with a 5 Heart's Desire. That said, let us concentrate on identifying the core issue and finding ways to deflect it. To do that, let us think of Emily (the 2) as water and Jess (the 5) as fire. In a controlled environment, they can be used to mutual benefit. But when they occupy the same space, only one will prevail. The lesson here is simple; do not get in each other's way.

Yours can be a strong, lifelong relationship if you accept each other as you are. You will need to willingly accept your differences and understand the need to live somewhat independent lives. Focus on the things you have in common and give each other plenty of room in areas of contention. Do your best to understand your partner, but do not expect to fully grasp their way of thinking.

Keep in mind that these descriptions relate to this specific aspect of the chart; it is likely you fit well together in other areas. Emily understands and gravitates toward the world of emotions, feelings, and intuition. They are concerned with contentment, happiness, and how one "feels" rather the accomplishments of a given day. Jess is more concerned with dynamic action, impulse, and risky adventure; they thrives on energy, motion, change, and excitement. Jess is not likely to slow down just because someone might be uncomfortable with the turmoil they generate.

Remember, this aspect of the chart can be largely offset if you maintain a little separation in your lives and lessen expectations that your partner should enjoy the same things you do. This combination advises you to form a relationship of caring and sharing like that found in a communal setting, rather than one where everything is artificially merged and experienced together.

THE PERSONALITY


The consonants of your full name at birth are the foundation of your Personality number, which is a little like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It's the outer layer of your personality, the part you feel comfortable sharing. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature.

Your Personality number serves as a censoring device in terms of what you send out, as well as whom and what you allow to approach. For this reason, your Personality is usually narrower and more protective in its definition than the real you. It also gives an indication of how others perceive you.


Emily, your Personality number is 2


You appear friendly and unpretentious. You have a soft and warm exterior. Others perceive you as gentle, safe harbor. People are drawn to you because, among other reasons, you appear warm and unthreatening.

Your dress is neat and clean. Your clothing should be comfortable, soft, and flowing. You should avoid plain and understated clothes. Try to be a little more daring and exciting in your appearance. This will balance nicely with your perceptive and open personality.

You are very patient and understanding, and a wonderful listener. You make others feel important and loved. You are sensitive and become tense in a disharmonious atmosphere. You have experienced quite a bit of negative criticism as a child, which made you shy growing up. Though you may be well past that shyness, a bit of the vulnerability has remained with you and is often sensed by others.

You are a peacemaker. Arguments leave you drained. People sense your desire for harmony. But you must avoid being the blank tablet for others' projections. People may underestimate your strength, but this is a mistake. You are strong. You bend, but don't break. Exercise is important to your appearance and to promote the level of strength you radiate.

You have a fine sense of beauty and excellent taste. There is a grace in your movements, reflecting your keen sense of harmony and refinement. The opposite sex is attracted to your gentle and attentive nature yet senses the passion beneath your surface. You have sex appeal.

Jess, your Personality number is 1


You radiate with a dynamic and efficient energy. You appear controlled and capable. You value courage and effort in the face of difficulties and these qualities show. Others can sense that you will not be pushed around.

You should dress in a dignified and correct manner, caring for the details of your appearance. While you may spend most of your time in staid business dress or suits, bright and cheerful colors work well for you. You are fashionable but have your own style. Your appearance suffers more than most people when you are overweight. Overweight directly contradicts the type of personality you are trying to project. Straight lines and square corners accent your good physique and enhance your appearance as a leader.

You are recognized as a pioneer; you have your own ideas of how to do things. You are a risk-taker, original and highly creative. You should be wary of appearing too aggressive or unreceptive. You can intimidate people if you don't soften your exterior somewhat. By doing this, you will attract less confident people who will be more willing to approach you with their thoughts and suggestions.

How Your Personality Numbers Compare

Your Personality is the first aspect people notice when you first meet. Very few relationships have a chance to progress if their Personality numbers are not compatible.


Emily and Jess, your Personality Compatibility is 2 and 1


Emily and Jess, you have a very promising combination although, interestingly, you have very little in common in this aspect of the chart. The core numbers show Jess to be strong, driven, competitive, motivated, and perhaps somewhat domineering. Emily is by nature more the "power behind the throne", a more patient type who keeps the bigger picture in mind. Sensitive, intuitive, insightful, and supportive, you will (usually) allow Jess to assume the more assertive role, while unobtrusively making sure the job gets done. The fact that you do not vie for power is key in this relationship. Both of you know your wants and needs and, in your own way, can express them to each other. Being comfortable in the roles you have chosen helps you to complement each other well.

Emily is the peacemaker, Jess the driving, ambitious force. However, it is important to look at other compatible aspects in your number combination to keep this in perspective. Jess needs to be careful with Emily's sensitive nature; their strength is like a strong stick - it will not break easily and is not concerned about getting damaged. Emily's strength is more flexible, but also more vulnerable; they will surrender more easily but is also more sensitive to harsh words and criticism. Jess can shrug off judgment from others without much damage to their ego. Interestingly, it is precisely because Emily can bend with the breeze that they will likely be the survivor if a serious storm hits, whereas, if the wind is strong enough, Jess's strength may snap.

In this aspect of the chart, the key to a healthy relationship is mutual respect and sincerity. Jess needs to understand that Emily's willingness to compromise or surrender does not indicate weakness or an indecisive nature. They should also be aware that Emily is not easily fooled. Although Emily may accept an explanation or situation without confrontation, it is due to their insight and perspective rather than cowardice; they recognize insincerity and dishonestly more quickly than Jess and should not be underestimated. And Emily should keep in mind that showing strength and bravado does not mean that Jess is not susceptible to hurt feelings. In fact, behind that facade of strength and courage is someone who experiences matters of the heart very deeply.

MATURITY NUMBER

Your Maturity number indicates an underlying wish or desire that gradually surfaces at around age 30 to 35. A direction begins to emerge as you gain a better understanding of yourself. With this self-knowledge comes a greater awareness of who you are, and the direction you want to set for your life.


Emily, your Maturity number is 1


As you mature, you will find yourself needing an increasing amount of independence and individuality. You will fight harder for the recognition and rewards you feel you deserve and will be less willing to accept failure or limitations in any form. Emily, your drive and determination will grow as does your ability to take charge.

If there are already several 1s in your chart, especially among the core numbers, you will have to strive to avoid becoming bossy, rigid, stubborn and selfish. A person who allows these characteristics to run free will become bullish and lonely later in life. If there are not many 1s in your chart, the influence of the Maturity Number will help you to establish your independence and success. From this foundation, you will have an active, adventurous, and exciting latter part of life.

Jess, your Maturity number is 6


As you mature, you will become increasingly concerned with the well-being of family, friends, and community. You will be drawn to the role as healer, counselor, and teacher. You have a growing ability to give comfort and sound advice to those in need. You naturally assume the role of patriarch or matriarch of those in your care, no matter how old they are. You become more responsible and protective. You may well become involved in environmental protection, volunteer work or politics. You are naturally idealistic and strive to realize those ideals as you grow in maturity and in personal resources.

Your careful and balanced approach to business and financial matters provides you with sound and secure success later in life. The 6-maturity number provides an outstanding financial foundation for the future. In addition, the influence of the 6 promises an old age surrounded by loved ones.

For those who have few 6s in the chart, or none at all, this Maturity Number promises the close relationships that you have striven for most of your life.

How Your Maturity Numbers Compare

Your Maturity number becomes more dominant with age. The texts below become increasingly important after about age 40.


Emily and Jess, your Maturity Compatibility is 1 and 6


Jess and Emily, yours is a lovely combination. Jess's 6 (by nature the most harmonious of all numbers) reflects a great capacity for love, understanding, sacrifice and support - with Emily as the beneficiary. And Emily's strong, dynamic 1 gives them the desire to protect and defend Jess through thick and thin, making Jess feel safe and secure. This is a combination that can last for a long time without the turbulence so many relationships experience. But, as always, there is another side to the coin.

This aspect of Emily's chart reveals an inner determination and a driven energy that does not slow down for anything. Emily does not look kindly on weakness and can be demanding of others. Like a true leader, they expect courage and strength from those around them. Jess reveals a different nature (at least in this area of the chart). Jess is compromising, forgiving, and sometimes sacrificing to a fault. Emily should be careful not to see this as a weakness.

Likewise, Jess may at times be disturbed by the somewhat gruff and unforgiving quality Emily can display. Jess should not confuse this with a lack of compassion. Emily is quite capable of feeling empathy, especially toward victims of circumstance where negligence, laziness, or cowardice are not the cause. Emily is only likely to respond harshly when they feel someone is not pulling their own weight.

The important thing for both of you to recognize is that you sometimes differ in your opinions about what the most valuable human qualities are. Your priorities differ - no harm no foul. If you can respect this contrast and value one another's positive qualities, your relationship has the potential to be happy and long lasting.